Lovers who explore MELTing engage in affectionate intimacy (with or without coitus) for as long as they desire – without the goal of climax. These stories are some of many authentic real-world accounts about MELTing, shared for inspirational and educational purposes. While some are authentically explicit, none are gratuitously arousing. The first-person accounts gathered on this channel appeared on various online forums where people discuss this mindful approach to union. We’ve used an AI video tool to add visuals and narrate some of them.

Inspiring instructional resources for those interested in Mutual Ecstatic Loving Transcendence:

·       ‘The Bliss Codes’ by Carolin Hauser

·       ‘Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow’ by Marnia Robinson (borrow it free here)

·       ‘The Gentleman’s Guide to Karezza Sex’ by Nick Brothermore

·       ‘The Karezza Method’ by J. William Lloyd (available for free on SynergyExplorers.org)

Additional MELTing accounts are being posted to this channel as they are finalized, so check back weekly. Want to share your experience anonymously? Email 'Contact@MELTlove.org'.

Videos of modern first-person self-reports

(M) It Wasn't Clear to Me How Skipping Orgasm Was Going to Be a Good Idea

(W) A Huge Feeling of Peace and Love Comes Over My Body

(M) The Old Way Had Very Little To Do With Love

(W) When He First Introduced the Idea, I Was a Bit Skeptical

(M) Little Movements Can Create the Greatest Connectedness and Resonance

(W) The Fewer Orgasms I Have The Better I Feel

(M) Our Past Has Been a Rollercoaster of Dysfunctional Intimacy

(W) Heart-Burstingly Loving

(M) I Got One of the Nicest Compliments from My Wife This Morning

(W) My Husband and I Sleepily Hook Up Most Mornings

(M) Now that We’re Both on Board with Non-orgasmic Sex Everything Has Changed

(W) He's the Most Adorable Person on Earth

(M) I Finally Found the Worm in the Apple of My Love Life

(W) Recently We Agreed to Try a Month WITH Orgasms

(M) Each Time We Reach a Place That Seems More Connected, Deeper, More Exciting

(W) It Has Been a Big Loss for Him to Let Go of Traditional Sex

(M) I Don't Get Intense Cravings for Sex Like I Did in The Past

(W) Our Practice Has Gotten Far Better Lately

(M) After 13 Years It's Still Moving to New Places

(W) He Said That the ‘Why’ Or ‘How’ It Works Didn't Matter

(M) I Think of Our Experience as Jumping in the Energy Pool and Playing Around

(W He Just Seemed to Follow My Lead, Which Was Way Cool

(M) Arguments Were Frequent and the Relationship Was Up and Down Like a Roller-Coaster

(W) In The Past Sex Only Lasted 5 to 10 Minutes to Do Us Both

(M) It Has Become the Center of Our Life Together

(W) We Are Both So Tired of the Rollercoaster

(M) Everything I Thought About Human Relationship Is Turned Upside Down

(W) If Only Men Knew How Much Women Take In Energetically Through Sex

(M) She Has Become Incredibly Vibrant, Sensual and More Beautiful Than Ever

(W) We Are Both Getting Better at Letting that Orgasm Moment Subside

(M) I Thought Staying So Still Would Be Boring...But It Wasn't

(W) He and I Had Been Going to Marriage Counselling for About 6 Months

(M) Lately It Seems Like Each Session Is Even Better Than the One Before

(W) I Used to Take Pain Medication Regularly for Menstrual-Related Pain

(M) It's No Longer a Case of 'Denying' Myself a Climax

(W) At First This Lovemaking Concept Seemed Like Another Sexist Thing

(M) Here's a Poem I Wrote Inspired by Our MELTing Lovemaking

(W) Tips on Soft Entry

(M) MELTing Can Be Nurturing to the Deepest Core

(W) I Didn't Know What I Was Doing Yet, and I Asked His Help

(M) We Have Arrived at a Place of Deep Sexual Happiness

(W) I Was Surprised by How Enjoyable I Found It Despite No Clitoral Stimulation

(M) This Concept of Lovemaking Had Completely Shaken Up Her View on Sex

(W) He Said I Was Shining and Smiling like a Real Goddess

(M) My Wife Is No Longer Becoming a "Witch"

(W) I Really Recommend Slowing Down. Like a Freaking Snail.

(M) Why Did We Never Have Sex Like this Before?

(W) My Breasts, Ears and Inner Wrists Are Like 'Off Pause' Buttons

(M) Putting Our Chests Together Tunes Us in to Each Other Very Quickly

(W) As Women, We Are Used to Tensing Up the Vaginal Walls During Intercourse

(M) No Wonder So Many Marriages End

(W) We Are Just Mind-Blown

(M) We Are Having Way More Sex Now in Our Late 40s Than We Ever Did in Our 20s

(W) It Far Surpasses Any Kind of Ecstasy I've Known

(M) My Wife Is Now Eager to Connect with Me

(W) Both of Us Are Normally ‘Doers’ and Have a Hard Time Sitting Still

(M) Don’t Be Afraid to Give Up Orgasm Completely

(W) I've Been the One to Introduce MELTing to My Husband

(M) The Quality of Our Connection…

(W) Once adjusted to this style, there's no real sense of holding back or missing out

(M) The 'No Orgasm' Road Is Pretty Smooth

(W) MELTing Can Be a Beautiful Practice

(M) This Is Still Blowing My Mind

(W) Now, He and I Are DOING This, Rather than "Trying" to Do It

(M) After 2 or 3 Weeks Things Were NOTICEABLY Better between Us

(W) Three Years On We Are Still Very Loving

(M) My Wife Was Headstrong But I Convinced Her to Try MELTing

(W) I Remember the Day I Said to My Husband, “I Just Can’t Do This Anymore.”

(M) I Feel Much More Personal Power and Competence

(W) We Connected with Our Hearts

(M) Dass die alten Schmetterlinge wieder erwachen

(M) Hiking in the Mountains We Found a Soft, Mossy Place

(W) Now, with practice, I have begun to see things in a new light

(M) I Don’t Have to Tire Myself Out Like Some Retired, and Not Much Loved, Porn Star  

(M) When Both Parties Have the Same Goal…Holy Shit. What a Paradigm Shift

(W) I've Been Free from Any Sort of Yeast Infection for Nearly a Year

(M) My Wife and I Resumed Intercourse after 4+ Years of Celibate Marriage

(M) Without Any Pressure or Goal, We Can Enjoy the Intimacy More Intensely

(M) I Feel a Gradual Build-Up of the Most Delightful Sensations

(W) We are only a month in

(M) I Can Feel the Warmth Pouring From Her Heart

(M) We Have a Lot of Pleasure These Days

(M) My 25 Days of Cool Sex

(M) We See this as Another Powerful Step in Our Relationship

(M) She'd Never Heard of MELTing

(M) A Rebirth of Our 20-Year Relationship

(M) It Is Light Years Better Than Sex I Ever Had With Orgasm

(M) I Don't Feel Estranged from My Wife Anymore

(M) We Reserved Any Sexual Activity for Our Marriage, But Engaged in Lots of Affectionate Touch

(M) I Came into the Experience Skeptical But Left Completely Transformed

(M) As an Added Benefit You're Clear Headed and Confident

(M) We Are About 20 Months into this Practice

(M) We’ve Been Forever Changed by MELTing 

(M) It Really Does Work

(M) Better Glucose Readings?

(M) I Read About Semen Retention Just to See What All the Fuss Was

(M) I Want to Carry On Caressing Her Afterwards

(M) The Erotic Carvings on Temples in India Confused Me

Mature lovers

(M) I Had a Most Profound Realization almost Immediately

(W) With Age, Intercourse Became Painful (dyspareunia). Modified MELTing to the Rescue!

(M) We Could Hardly Believe that Such a Simple Change in Our Lovemaking…

(M) As a Man, When I Am Continent…

(W) When I Also Quit Orgasming, We Experienced Another Shift

(M) I Have Been Practicing [MELTing] for Maybe a Year and a Half

(M) After Another Delightful Morning of [MELTing]...

(M) My Wife Is Not At All Interested In Sex

(M) We Don't Need That Hot Lustful Mood To Make Love Any More

(M) My Wife Has Largely Stopped Orgasming

Porn recovery and MELTing

(M) Not Cumming During Sex Is the Best Thing I've Ever Experienced

(M) There Is No Feeling of Lack Any More in Our Sex Life

(M) Can MELTing Help Recovery from Heavy Porn Use?

(M) I Have Morning Wood after Years of Not Having It

(M) What Is New Is the Experience of Total Virility in a Loving Relationship

(M) I Have an Amazing Reaction When My Wife Touches Me Now

(M) We Didn’t Talk About Sexuality In My Home Growing Up

(M) Since Stopping All Porn I See Her Flower Beginning to Open, and It Is Beautiful

(M) I Stopped a Lifelong Habit of Masturbation, Fantasy and Porn COLD

(M) Man Eliminating Porn Use Tries MELTING for the First Time

(M) My Fantasies Have Lost Their Power

(M) Guy Age 25 Experiments with MELTing

(M) Conventional Sex with My Wife Just Didn't Satisfy All My Needs

(M) I've Been Addicted to Porn Off and On for at Least 40 Years

(M) Never in a Million Years Would I Have Expected My Journey in Life to Head this Way

(M) Eliminating Porn Use Is Going Better Than I Ever Imagined 

(M) She Is More Interested in Sex Now

(M) MELTing Will Clear Up a Lot of Issues Whether or Not the Relationship Lasts

(M) Had I Known I'd Feel This Good If I Gave Up Porn, I'd Have Done It Long Ago

(M) I Now Know What a Huge Unsuspected Effect Orgasms Had on Me

(M) It's Absolutely Worth It

(M) Regular Sex Is Not the Same as [MELTing]. Not Even in the Same League

(M) I Had Been Noticing Weaker Erections While Watching Porn

(M) I’d Known Something Was Wrong for Quite Some Time

(M) Don’t Wait. Rewire Your Sexuality to a Real Partner, Away from Screens

(W) Wife Describes MELTing’s Effects on Porn Use and Masturbation

(M) I Had Absolutely No ‘Blue Balls’ Today

(M) ED or DE?

Historical accounts from old texts

There Has Come Such a Flowing Together of Soul as I Cannot Describe

We Enjoy True Physical Satisfaction

After About Half an Hour Something Began to Flow in Them

This Poem First Appeared in Dr. J. William Lloyd's ‘The Karezza Method’

I Am a Young Man, 24 Years of Age

I Date My Marriage from the Time When My Husband and I Discovered MELTing

The Harmony between My Wife and Myself Seemed to Be Dying Out